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How often should I make love to my pregnant wife who is 21 weeks pregnant?

December 28th, 2009


Before she got pregnant, we made love 3 to 4 times a week and now that she is about 21 weeks pregnant, am kind of scared to make love to her. What should I do, pls I need answers.

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  1. December 31st, 2009 at 08:57 | #1

    as long as she is comfortable with it

  2. January 1st, 2010 at 17:40 | #2

    It’s ok for pregnant women to have sex, jus make sure you do it gently.

  3. January 2nd, 2010 at 21:04 | #3

    Once you feel something grab your p e n i s when you two are DOING it then its time to stop.

  4. January 6th, 2010 at 04:29 | #4

    you can do it right up to delivery, jusy don’t blow air up it with your mouth and don’t do the butt thing.

  5. January 6th, 2010 at 23:24 | #5

    As long as the doctor hasn’t told you not to, it’s safe to make love to your wife while she’s pregnant. As to how many times per week, that’s up to the two of you.

  6. January 8th, 2010 at 19:44 | #6

    As long as their no complications w/ pregnancy & she is comfortable do it 10 x a day if the 2 of you want. The baby is not being hurt & can not feel anything, if the belly is a turn off try some diffrent positions

  7. January 10th, 2010 at 06:52 | #7

    If she is pregnant, I will recommend that you have no sex…it’s so discusting and she can even loss the baby ( i think)…it’s just nasty…
    Please, dont make her pass through it…

  8. newmommy
    January 12th, 2010 at 19:41 | #8

    As often as she would like! It is perfectly safe, unless she has complications and her OB tells her otherwise.

  9. January 14th, 2010 at 01:45 | #9

    As often as she wants, all the way until she delivers!!!! Don’t be worried, you can’t hurt the baby. Inf fact, many women are more horney when they are pregnant. And take advantage of it while you can, once baby comes say goodbye to a sex life for a long while.

  10. momofoneandhalf
    January 15th, 2010 at 20:02 | #10

    If she has a fine and normal pregnancy(no complications) you can make love to her as much as SHE wants.

    It may be a little uncomfortable for her since the vagina swells a little during the pregnancy. Also no more missionary, since it will be uncomfortable (big belly in the way) and she shouldn’t be laying on her back.

  11. January 16th, 2010 at 00:25 | #11

    As long as there are no medical problems and the doctor has said there is nothing wrong or why you should avoid sex, you can do as much as you both want. make sure your wife is comfortable.

    PLEASE REMEMBER YOUR WIFE NEEDS TO FEEL BEAUTIFUL AND LOVED DURING PREGNANCY GIVE HER ALL THE COMPLIMENTS IN THE WORLD AND SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU CARE, YOU ARE BOTH GOING THROUGH SOMETHING WONDERFUL TOGETHER. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

  12. January 16th, 2010 at 06:34 | #12

    As many times as it takes to make her feel loved and beautiful while she is pregnant. But makes sure she is in the mood.

  13. Missy W
    January 18th, 2010 at 18:57 | #13

    as long as she’s having a healthy pregnancy and feels up to being intimate, it’s a good thing. Pregnancy is rough in so many ways, on both people involved. Make sure you let her know she’s beautiful, maybe an occasional footrub/backrub, trust me, they go a long way towards helping relax and maybe get her in the mood. if she feels sexy, she’ll be more receptive. the feel good hormones released when having sex are good for her and the baby. when she’s relaxed the baby can tell. you’re not going to poke the baby or dislodge it, so as long as she’s up to it, have at it, just be gentile and follow her lead. i have a 5 month old, so treasure your alone time while you can..lol make sure she gets lots of rest, go to the movies, out to eat, ect. it’ll be hard to do all that for the first few months after your little one is with you. here’s a site that may help answer some of your questions :)

  14. JODY b
    January 20th, 2010 at 07:42 | #14

    as many times as she needs it untill she is satisfied. Sexual desire can rise in pregnancy, ask her to let you know when she’s in the mood and the belly should be a turn on, it is the absolute core of what your love created…evolved into–look at what she is able to give to both your lives.Also–we would have super rough sex to TRY and get me to go into labor– i didn’t work so in my experieence you can get super rough and it is still ok.

  15. Yikesgirl116
    January 21st, 2010 at 08:09 | #15

    If she is that many weeks old having sex will make the baby come out sooner it doesn’t do anything to the baby.Doctors will tell u to do other stuff and if you have already did that then you can have sex.You could do it every night.It wouldn’t hurt anything.

  16. January 24th, 2010 at 01:28 | #16

    As often as you like as long as it’s okay with her and there isn’t any pain.

  17. SweetandCuddlyRai
    January 26th, 2010 at 04:39 | #17

    i dont think there something to be scared of if the oby still permits the both of you… makin love has also advantage in pregnancy… make love till you can :)

  18. January 28th, 2010 at 11:07 | #18

    there is no need to be scared the baby is safe and soundin the uterus full of liquid to protect it and it can ‘t be reached vaginally either I personally had to have sex on all fours towards the end of all 3 pregnancies due to a comfort thing But your wife will let you know

  19. buttar506
    January 31st, 2010 at 11:21 | #19

    For the answer of your question you better ask her Doc. when you will be there to the next visit. Her Doc. can suggest the best after her examination of baby’s growth and position in the Womb. Anyway I have studied that you can make love to woman even she is in her lost weeks but what you have to care about is the baby position and the position you get into during sex.

  20. February 1st, 2010 at 23:20 | #20

    Keep up what you have done before. Often pregnant women are more sexual while pregnant . Enjoy it

  21. February 4th, 2010 at 05:50 | #21

    Don’t ask us. Ask your wife. It should be as often as you are both willing.

  22. krazy4_coke2
    February 4th, 2010 at 09:50 | #22

    you can have sex as long as she is ok with it but if she says not tonight then don’t she will be fine if the doctor does not have her taking it easy then no problem you can do the deed all the way until the night or day she starts labor hope this helps

  23. February 7th, 2010 at 14:38 | #23

    dont be stupid, dont do it hard but you can make love at a normal pace until she says she feels uncomfortable, the doctors usually say nothing in the last 6 weeks , just for safetys sake.

  24. manywarhoops
    February 9th, 2010 at 06:51 | #24

    If the doctor says it’s ok for sex, just be nice and gentle and ready to try new positions.

  25. February 11th, 2010 at 17:21 | #25

    Dont worry the baby is totally sealed off. There is no way you can hurt the baby so chill out and enjoy your wife.

  26. February 13th, 2010 at 19:43 | #26

    once a month

    :> peace
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